Grand Chain

18 December 2019 – All those decades ago, and only for a while, I was pretty nifty at square dancing. Practically every step has now left memory, but I still recall a few basics. Including “Grand Chain” — a sequence in which you leave your original position, weave your way among other participants, and end up back where you began.

I think of this, the other day, on a very crowded bus. Not for the first tine, either, because a Grand Chain often takes place on Vancouver public transit.

It is set off by a combination of (a), official signage …

and, (b), human kindness. (Though not always the full square-dance choreography: there’s no guarantee, not even the likelihood, that people will end up where they began.)

Signage reminds us that Vancouver busses are not only fully accessible, they reserve front-of-bus priority for certain categories of passenger.

Which means that I, all these decades later and all by myself, can be enough to trigger a Grand Chain of seat redistribution.

And so it is, this very crowded day.

  • I, visibly a Senior, pay my fare & slalom my way into the knot of youthful standees immediately past the driver.
  • Middle-Aged Lady smiles and stands up; I smile and sit down.
  • MIddle-Aged Lady in turn slaloms into the congested aisle.
  • Young Man smiles and stands up; she smiles and sits down.

Driver, next stop, calls out: “Stroller coming on!”

  • People vacate the side-facing front seats.
  • Stroller Mother smiles and locks in the stroller.

  • Now-Standing-People slalom along the aisle.
  • Middle-Aged Lady spots someone Now-Standing whom she judges older than she is; she once again smiles and stands up.
  • Somewhat-Older-Person smiles and sits down.

My stop!

  • I get up, smile at Middle-Aged Lady, and wave at my seat.
  • She smiles and sits down.

Grand Chain.

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  1. I love this. 🙂

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  2. despite my age and silvery hair, I haven’t been offered a seat as yet, but I have offered one to females no longer young but not old and they always decline with a smile. I guess they look at the oldish bloke and deduce that he needs the seat more than they do — who knows?

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    • I decided, even when leaving obviously ‘senior,’ that whenever offered a seat I’d take it, because I want to reward civic kindness & courtesy, not discourage it. And even if I felt fine, didn’t really need it, I could always stand up in turn for someone else. You know, writing this one, I felt as if I were writing one of your short stories! It really did happen as I described it, but I felt more conscious of story construction, instead of my usual just-bouncing-along.

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  3. love this, square dancing reference very appropriate! HA I have on occassion reminded a few young, teenage (?) men and women to give up their seats, not for me, but for another senior or incumbered human, because I would have already done my part in the dance you describe. Poor dears are so addicted to their phones they just miss out sometimes.

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  4. If only Brexit could work like this, or the impeachemnt, or countless other difficulties.

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  5. Love your story and you are fortunate to have such an experience. Unfortunately, I find the seats are mostly occupied by young people focused on their devices who chose not to look up to see if anyone needs a seat. Alternatively, they are occupied by mothers and children who feel they also have a right to them (strollers excluded)

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    • I’ve seen inconsderate & outright nasty behaviour on the bus system as well but mostly, here as in Toronto, I see people treating each other well., including across generational & cultural lines. It’s an encouraging sight, when daily we are reminded of so much ugliness in the world.

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